Mocarski Family Stuff

Monday, October 31, 2005

Paul's new look

This is the new uniform. I can't remember what they are called, some kind of all purpose thing. Paul will tell us I'm sure. Up close they look pixelated. They are all little squares. It's supposed to help avoid detection from electronic stuff or something. Anyway, this was Paul's last time at home for a looooong time. Look for me to be insane by about Dec. 13th. Just an estimate but a pretty good one I think.

The other Major Mocarski


Alek waiting for time to catch the bus. There are more pics in the photo albums and I'll have halloween added after they trick or treat tonight.

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Franks version


Matt, this is the change Uncle Frank made. It looks more rock and roll. What do you think?

Monday, October 24, 2005

Hmmm, very interesting

Smoking can lessen IQ, thinking ability

NEW YORK - The poorer mental function seen among alcoholics, many of whom also regularly smoke cigarettes, may be partially due to the long-term effects of nicotine, new research suggests. "People who are also smokers are at a much higher risk," Dr. Jennifer M. Glass, of the University of Michigan's Addiction Research Center, told Reuters Health. In her study, "cigarette smoking was negatively related to IQ and thinking," she said.
To investigate that association, Glass and her colleagues examined brain function among 172 men from the same community, including 103 men who abused alcohol.

The team found that men with higher scores on the lifetime alcohol problems scale (LAPS) and those who reported a higher number of pack-years of smoking (i.e. packs of cigarettes smoked per day times number of years) both had lower IQ scores and lower scores on a test of global proficiency.

The proficiency test took into account the speed and accuracy with which the men were able to perform on a battery of tests including those that measured short-term memory, verbal reasoning and mathematical reasoning.

Upon further investigation, the researchers found that smoking predicted poorer global proficiency even more strongly than alcoholism did. Their findings were published online before publication in Drug and Alcohol Dependence.

Smoking also appeared to be independently associated with weaker verbal and visual-spatial reasoning, the study indicates.

Thus, though smoking did not account for all of the decreased neurocognitive functioning observed among the alcohol abusers, it did seem to account for some of the effects, the report indicates.

The reason for the observed associations is unknown, and the researchers did not investigate the "cause and effect story," Glass said, but she speculated that the diminished cognitive ability among smokers may be partly due to some mechanism involving a restricted flow of blood and oxygen to the brain.

Based on the current report, Glass said, "if you need another reason to quit smoking, it's a good potential one to add to the list."

Friday, October 21, 2005

Found this online

Read till you get to the bottom and you'll see why this is here.

Ft. Stewart's 3rd Infantry Division returns to Iraq

By MIKE WILLIAMS
Cox News Service
Thursday, February 17, 2005

TIKRIT, Iraq — Less than two years ago, Staff Sgt. Antonio Presley was riding as a gunner in a tank, part of the U.S. Army's 3rd Infantry Division from Ft. Stewart, Ga. that captured Baghdad International Airport and helped bring down Iraqi dictator Saddam Hussein.

Now Presley and his unit, Charley Company, 2nd Brigade, 7th Infantry Regiment, are back in Iraq for their second tour of duty, hoping to finish the job they started by helping Iraqis rebuild the country with a stable, democratic government.

"Some of the guys were jumpy when we first rode in this time, but now we've got it down," said Presley, 25, a native of Atlanta. "I wasn't disappointed when I heard we were coming back. It's the cause. That's what I signed up for."

The 3rd Infantry Division is the first major American military unit sent back to Iraq for a second time since the March 2003 invasion. Some 19,000 soldiers of the division were being sent to Iraq in phases in January and this month.

The second deployment, expected to last 12-14 months, has been hard on the soldiers and their families.

"It's harder on our families than on us," said Staff Sgt. Harold English, 34, of Harrisburg, Pa., who is now deployed to Iraq for the third time after having taken part in Operation Desert Storm more than a decade ago and the 2003 invasion. "They hear the reports and don't know what's going on."

While the division's mission this time is essentially peace-keeping and nation building, there is no question that the job is still dangerous.

The unit suffered its first casualties less than a week after arriving in Iraq when a roadside bomb blew up a vehicle on Feb. 4 in the town of Bayji, just north of Tikrit. Staff Sgt. Steven G. Bayow, 42, of Micronesia and Sgt. Daniel Torres, 23, from Ft. Worth, Texas, both veterans of the 2003 invasion, were killed.

"As you can expect, that was hard on the unit," said Maj. Mark Nordstrom, 49, the 1st Brigade chaplain. "These were their friends, their roommates, and they had worked together for four years."

Word of the casualties spread quickly, shocking some soldiers and reinforcing the dangers they face.

"For guys who haven't been here before, it was a reality check," said Staff Sgt. Anthony Lewis, 25, from Fresno, Calif. "It made them aware of what we're doing out here, that you never know when or how something might happen. It's important to be ready all the time."

Despite the ever-present threat of insurgent attack, most of the soldiers feel Iraq is a far different place than during the 2003 invasion.

"Last time we were here, this patch was feared," said Capt. Jason Freidt, 30, Charley Company's commander, pointing to the division emblem on his shoulder. "Now it's welcome. There are a lot of former Iraqi military officers living in one of our towns, and some of them told us they fought against us last time near the Baghdad airport. Now they're cooperating with us."

Freidt's company has been assigned to patrol territory just south of Tikrit that includes farmland and two small towns, Wynot and Owja, the village where Saddam grew up.

Their job is to provide security in the area, to find and arrest insurgents and to help the Iraqis rebuild their government, economy and institutions. The unit is taking over for a company from the 1st Infantry Division which laid the groundwork by organizing elections for city councils in both towns — the first time either had a local government, much less one democratically-elected.

Friedt and his men will continue encouraging local leaders to build up their town's government, schools and other public services and facilities. The unit has money available to lend to local business owners, as well as for projects like rebuilding schools, parks and water systems.

"I heard a general once say that war is easy, but nation-building is hard," Freidt said. "We're getting to the hard part now. We're helping build up the Iraqi people, but at the same time we're going to be going into these towns and arresting a bomb-maker or an insurgent."

The need for vigilance was hammered home by the two deaths in Bayji, but also on a recent patrol through the farming area near Wynot, when a roadside bomb exploded near Freidt's column. Fortunately, no one was hurt and the device failed to damage any of the vehicles.

"That just reinforced that every mission is a combat mission," Freidt said.

The company lives at a forward operating base near Tikrit, where the men bunk in the cavernous rooms of a mansion that was under construction for one of Saddam's relatives at the time of the 2003 war. They have hot showers, laundry service, hot meals trucked in twice a day from a nearby base, a big-screen television and Internet connections.

"It's a lot better than the first time," said Sgt. Jonathan Beck, 22, of Lancaster, Pa. "This time we've got a place to live and eat and sleep. It's like being back at Ft. Stewart."

But duty in Iraq is hard and dangerous, something that even the youngest soldiers are quickly learning.

Spec. Jason Shaw, 19, of Houston, Texas, will turn 20 soon, and recalls that during the 2003 war, he was only 17 years old.

"I'm only 19 and I've spent most of my Army career here," said Shaw, who got married six months ago but will only see his new bride once on his home leave during the coming year while the unit is deployed in Iraq.

"This time is different," he said. "It's not a war, it's more like a game. The only bad thing is you don't know when something is going to happen."

Friday, October 14, 2005

Anyone who believes this happens often raise your hand

From another Tom Cruise/Katie Holmes article:

In other reports, when it comes time for the actress to give birth in several months, it has been suggested that Holmes will attempt a silent labor in keeping with Scientology tradition.

The practice encourages mothers to be to forgo painkillers and to refrain from screaming or even talking as they bring their children into the world. Scientologists believe that the silence reduces trauma during birth and prevents irrational fears later in life.

Thursday, October 13, 2005

What about something like this Matt


It would need cleaned up. I did it in paint so it's kind of rough. Would be better on CAD or something.

I've been thinking of taking a class . . .

By Philip Pullella
Thu Oct 13, 8:00 AM ET

ROME (Reuters) - It was the first day of school, so some students were understandably nervous. But then again, they were not taking just any course, but one run by a Vatican university to teach aspiring demonologists and exorcists.

"There is no doubt that the devil is intervening more in the life of man these days," Father Paolo Scarafoni told the students, most of them priests who want to learn how to tackle the demon if they should ever encounter him.

"Not all of you will become exorcists but it is indispensable that every priest knows how to discern between demonic possession and psychological problems," he said.

(Which one of you wants to hold Robin down while I spray her with Holy Water?)

The four-month course, called "Exorcism and the Prayer of Liberation," is being offered for the second year by Pontifical Regina Apostolorum University on Rome's outskirts.

The about 120 students from around the world will hear lectures on topics such as the pastoral, spiritual, theological, liturgical, medical, legal and criminological aspects of Satanism and demonic possession.

One planned lecture is called: "Problems related to exorcism and correlated issues."

One priest, who asked not to be identified, said he decided to take the course after a "very unsettling experience" while hearing the confession of one young member of his parish.

"Her voice changed, her face was transformed and she started speaking in a language that she did not know," he said. "I've met people who are suffering from this problem and it is not as rare as we might imagine."

(My Mom does that after a few drinks)

So, will he be ready to wrestle with demons of the kind who may have possessed his parishioner in the confessional box?

"If, after this course, my superiors decide that it will be useful for me to become an exorcist, I will do it," he said.

Wednesday, October 12, 2005

My Boys


They look like they are up to no good. Wonder what they were talking about.

Last word

Compromises Help Divide Family Time
By Linda Breazeale

MISSISSIPPI STATE -- Managing the holiday tug of war between family homes can add enormous stress to a season intended to provide pleasant memories for years to come.

"Deciding where to spend Thanksgiving and Christmas is one of the toughest choices many families face during the holiday season," said Dr. Louise Davis, child and family development specialist with Mississippi State University's Extension Service. "Healthy compromises require honest and considerate communication."

Davis said planning ahead is the key to smoother holidays. Consider factors such as distance, economic ability, health, priorities and past choices well in advance of the holidays.

"Alternating between families may be a solution some years, but that can be hard to follow indefinitely," Davis said. "There aren't many families that can observe consistent traditions year after year the way the previous generations enjoyed them. We're just too mobile and face too many external demands."

As children are added to families and health becomes a factor, compromises become even more important.

"Everyone needs to be willing to sacrifice their ideal holiday family gathering. Be open to continuing traditions in different homes," Davis said. "Don't let a sour attitude spoil everyone's holiday season."

One potential pitfall of compromises occurs when the same person or family compromises every year. Some people are more giving and willing to compromise, but that doesn't mean they are the only ones who should make concessions. Stubborn people should not always have their choices.

"Silent sufferers still suffer. Eventually, resentment can build to unbearable levels," Davis said. "Don't assume everyone is happy. Discuss decisions thoroughly to make sure everyone has been reasonably satisfied."

Effective communication means taking time to listen, restating the problems, recognizing the boundaries, showing compassion and being honest without being hurtful.

"Keep expectations for the holiday season manageable. Don't be afraid to try something new, and don't be disappointed if the holidays aren't what they used to be," Davis said. "Life brings changes. Each holiday season is different and can be enjoyed in its own way."

Thursday, October 06, 2005

Can I get a Hallelujah and a "SAY WHAT !?!"

LONDON (AFP) - US President George W. Bush allegedly said God told him to invade Iraq and Afghanistan, a new BBC documentary will reveal, according to details.

Bush made the claim when he met Palestinian leader Mahmud Abbas and then foreign minister Nabil Shaath in June 2003, the ministers told the documentary series to be broadcast in Britain later this month.

The US leader also told them he had been ordered by God to create a Palestinian state, the ministers said.

Shaath, now the Palestinian information minister, said: "President Bush said to all of us: 'I'm driven with a mission from God.

'God would tell me, 'George, go and fight those terrorists in Afghanistan'.'

"And I did, and then God would tell me, 'George, go and end the tyranny in Iraq...' And I did.

"'And now, again, I feel God's words coming to me, 'Go get the Palestinians their state and get the Israelis their security, and get peace in the Middle East.' And by God I'm gonna do it'," said Shaath.

Abbas, who was also at the meeting in the Egyptian resort of Sharm al-Sheikh, recalled how the president told him: "I have a moral and religious obligation.

"So I will get you a Palestinian state."

A BBC spokesman said the content of the programme had been put to the White House but it had refused to comment on a private conversation.

The three-part series, "Elusive Peace: Israel and the Arabs", charts the attempts to bring peace to the Middle East, from former US president Bill Clinton's peace talks in 1999-2000 to Israel's withdrawal from the Gaza strip.

The programme speaks to presidents and prime ministers, their generals and ministers, about what happened behind closed doors as the peace talks failed and the intifada grew.

The series is due to be screened in Britain on October 10, 17 and 24.

My Front Yard


This is what my yard looks like. After spending a month and a half getting the road dug up and not being about to use my driveway for part of that, one of the utilities came in and without notice just started digging up the yard. Guess I should go buy some grass seed.

Sunday, October 02, 2005

Dresses





Okay, because I have nowhere else to put these: Jordan, these are the styles of dresses I think would be good for Prom. If you want a gown or cocktail dress. I can't find a picture anywhere of my all-time-favorite gown. Jody Foster was wearing it at the black tie affair in Contact. Prettiest dress ever made. Oh, and I love the third one but I think Emily is the only one in this family that could pull it off.

Saturday, October 01, 2005

What's wrong with this picture

LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger signed a law on Friday tripling damages celebrities can win from paparazzi if they are assaulted during a shoot and denying the photographers profits from any pictures taken during an altercation.

AND YET . . .

SAN FRANCISCO (AFP) - California's embattled movie star governor, Arnold Schwarzenegger, formally vetoed a landmark law that would have legalized gay marriage in the Golden state.

VETOES ON THESE BILLS AS WELL THAT . . .

• Would have provided more state oversight of the stem cell research institute created by voters last year through Proposition 71. SB 18, written by Sen. Deborah Ortiz (D-Sacramento), passed the Legislature with overwhelming bipartisan support, but Schwarzenegger said the proposition had decreed that new laws could not be passed until three years after it was created.

• Would have outlawed mandatory overtime for nurses. AB 1184, sponsored by Assemblyman Paul Koretz (D-West Hollywood), was written by the Service Employees International Union. Schwarzenegger said mandatory overtime was necessary to meet staffing ratios that he tried this year to dilute.

• Would have made it easier for class-action lawsuits to be filed against employers that fail to pay the minimum wage or obey overtime laws. Schwarzenegger said SB 174, by Sen. Joe Dunn (D-Santa Ana), could have led to "shakedown" lawsuits.

BECAUSE HE WON'T EVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT MINIMUM WAGE

• Would have increased the damages that workers could obtain from employers who paid them less because they were female. Schwarzenegger rejected AB 169 by Assemblywoman Jenny Oropeza (D-Long Beach) because, he said, existing penalties were "stiff" enough.

CAUSE HE'S A MALE WHO MAKES MILLIONS

• Would have increased penalties on employers who resisted paying workers' compensation claims (SB 1023 by Dunn).

• Would have required the state to set up a website directing Californians to pharmacies in Canada, Ireland and Britain where they could get prescription drugs at cheaper prices (AB 73 by Assemblyman Dario Frommer, D-Glendale).

BECAUSE WHO CARES IF ALL THE PREVIOUS (THOSE NURSES AND UNDERPAID WOMEN AND FOLKS ENTITLED TO WORKERS COMPENSATION WHO DON'T GET IT) CAN AFFORD A PRESCRIPTION. IT'S NOT LIKE THEY CAN'T RUN OUT AND MAKE A MOVIE AND THEN SUE THE PAPARAZZI TO PAY FOR IT.